Some Of Us Have Been Told

Have been told what to do with your life by someone you thought cared? If so, then this little devotional is for you.

Surely I can be the only one and ended up with massive scars because of it. Whether it was right or wrong, the only people who should have a say about your life is you, a spouse if you have one, and God.

Believe you me, when you make Him.the last choice instead of the first choice life can end disastrous leaving bitterness and hatred where love once stood.

So take it from me, don't let anyone deter you from your calling for the benefits outweigh the negative.

God Bless.

Some of us have been told what we want our whole lives. We’ve been told we should want to go out for sports or not. We should want a college education or a graduate degree or a particular career. We should want to date this person and not the other one. None of it is mean-spirited, of course, and no one means any harm. It just doesn’t sit well with us. It happens in our churches and schools and faith communities too. We’re told by someone what God wants us to do and not do. We’re told we shouldn’t drink or cuss or watch certain movies. We’re told we should want to have “quiet times” in the mornings and talk to strangers about “a relationship with God.” We’re told we should want to go on “mission trips” and “witness” to people, so we do it even if we don’t really know what the words mean. But often just for a while. After long enough, what looks like faith isn’t really faith anymore. It’s just compliance. The problem with mere compliance is it turns us into posers. Rather than making decisions ourselves, we do what everyone we respect tells us we ought to do, and we sacrifice our ability to make choices of our own.

The fix is as easy as the problem is hard. Instead of telling people what they want, we need to tell them who they are. This works every time.  We’ll become in our lives whoever the people we love the most say we are. God did this constantly in the Bible. He told Moses he was a leader and Moses became one. He told Noah he was a sailor and he became one. He told Sarah she was a mother and she became one. He told Peter he was a rock and he led the church. He told Jonah he’d be fish food and, well, he was. If we want to love people the way God loved people, let God’s Spirit do the talking when it comes to telling people what they want.  All the directions we’re giving to each other aren’t getting people to the feet of Jesus.

More often, the unintended result is they lead these people back to us. When we make ourselves the hall monitor of other people’s behavior, we risk having approval become more important than Jesus’ love.

-Author Unknown